A Tribute to Stepmothers: Unsung Heroes of Love

My Mom died when I was 18 years old, and Beatrice gave us the birth of a new life for me and my sisters and dad. It was life as a family. My dad was so happy. She loved him and he loved her so much. It was the best time of his life and ours.

In the grand tapestry of family, there exists a special thread woven with love, resilience, and unwavering devotion—the stepmother. Often overshadowed by traditional parental roles, stepmothers stand as unsung heroes, their significance transcending biological ties.

With hearts open wide, they embrace not only their partner but also the children who come with them, bridging the chasm between past and present with grace and compassion. They can take on the roles of friend, mentor, and protector. They are there as volunteers. The relation can bring a light to a child. I was lucky and have gratitude.

I, too, become a stepmother and help raised a wonderful child that was going through so much because of his mother’s mental illness. I never replaced her. I was a bonus to my son. 

Let’s celebrate the mothers and the stepmothers’ beautiful souls.

Happy Mother’s Day too to all Aunties and Grandparents who help create the communities that help our children to be successful.

We know that high conflict custody causes trauma and affects our children’s life to adulthood. Let us take a minute and think about our actions and words. Hurt and betrayal is difficult. You are a warrior, think about what we are doing to influence our children in a more positive way. You are getting divorced or separated, not the children. Have a Happy Mother’s Day.

Let us all celebrate the women who has been a part of our lives.